FSRP (FORCED SEX
a mindset - and one that is NOT common among the mass D/s population. It's much more personally demanding, and far more rewarding. If you understand the philosophy, the right actions will always follow. If you pay attention only to the actions (symptoms), it's likely you'll play another flavor of D/s.
- Knows her high worth.
- Is virtuous, self-assured, intelligent, has a strong sense of identity.
- Knows that her body is her most valuable posession, thus will not give it.
- Knows / argues that she must maintain her virtue. Her lust and body can, though, get the best of her if she's excited enough.
- Knows and recognizes the damsel's worth. Thus, getting to use her body, is his prize.
- Is not ALLOWED to have her (socially). This is why his lust rages inside him.
- DESIRES the damsel - the drive that motivates him is passionate, almost loving DESIRE:
He steals romantic kisses while she cannot escape him.....
He gently caresses her, relishing her curves, while she is helpless before him....
He slowly appreciates her body, while she has no means to deny him....
He takes the most intimate of moments, while she writhes beneath
him, trying to push him away, trying to throw him off......
And all the while his desire for her demonically soothes, "Relax....you can't
escape me...you're mine now!"
- Has an intensity of lust that is, at times, almost animal when he has the opportunity to release it.
The captor's enjoyment comes from:
Knowing he will physically have what he's not supposed to have, even though she'd never let him touch her (normally).
Knowing his power in his mastery of: slow seduction / blackmail / bondage / his strength / using her pleasure to make her want him / play hypnosis
Getting his pleasure (enjoying her body, pleasing himself with her body, making her beg for him while he uses her, watching her do as he commands her) - as much as he wants, any way he wants, for as long as he wants.
Knowing he is SO talented at making her feel pleasure that to force her to multiple orgasms is proof of his mastery. Mastering her pleasure encourages him, drives him on to see how far he can drive her. He uses her pleasure and her orgasms to weaken her, to exhaust (and ultimately soften) her struggles into moans....could he make her faint from too many orgasms?
And Ohhhh, the top of all possible achievements, when, through his power to enforce pleasure, she does as he demands of her, or says what he demands her to say, because she's so overwhelmed.
a skill - Sexual talent is a learned, acquired skill...it doesn't come naturally.
FSRP skill is NOT the mainstream of D/s. A whip is easy. Punishment is easy. These are not FSRP.
The captor's skill is his ability to weaken the damsel's defenses, to make her vulnerable, to make her want him
To achieve this, and to have his way with her, the captor
uses a combination of:
slow seduction / erotic excitment
bondage / pinning her
an art - the power of seduction through strength, knowledge, mind play, and the sexual ability to create overwhelming pleasure.
a game - the
game of mental and physical mastery. Anyone can out-muscle a
smaller, weaker sub. But "play-rape" without excitement is still a
drag. Can you make her do what you want through pleasure, instead of
pain? Can you convince her by coaxing her? Can you create orgasms
until - out of pure pleasure-exhaustion, she gives herself to you?
The Dom knowing, and showing that he knows, the sub's true, lustful, pleasure-desiring nature, even if she plays the 'virtuous girl'.
The Dom knowing the true worth of the valuable prize before him. His excitement is knowing that he can and will possess this jewel utterly, and that, through his talent of 'pursuasion', he will have his way.
We hear, "Good girls don't", but the Dom shows that he will enjoy the sub regardless of her "will". He knows that when she's excited enough, she'll do anything he wants.
The Dom's power of persuasion, which is NOT limited to pure brute force. There are other, more powerful methods of pursuasion.... A good Dom learns what buttons he can push. When needed, he may use his strength against her to show his power, or to corner her into his lair, to keep her where he wants her. But his strength supplements, not replaces, his other talents to 'Master' her.
The Dom controls the sub by using his power, and her
pleasure, against her. Once in his clutches, he weakens her defenses by
"pushing her buttons". Through his ability to create extreme excitement
and erotic tension, he can coax his prey to do his every bidding.
FSRP is NOT about showing mastery over a woman through pure force, insults, punishment, or "how bad" she is.
spanking/whipping -- this is discipline and/or pain-oriented, not FSRP
refusing orgasm (or taking something away) unless you comply/behave -- this is reward / punishment, not FSRP
control through pain -- this is brutality, not FSRP. Note: some FSRP role-plays will include MINOR use of force / pain for temporary control, but the Dom's MAIN control is through slow seduction / blackmail / bondage / pinning her / using her pleasure to make her beg for him / play hypnosis.
name-calling / humiliation -- this often caters to negative self-esteem issues; this is not FSRP. Note: some FSRP role-plays will include MINOR use of name-calling as a demonstration of the Dom's pride in taking posession, but name-calling / humiliation are NOT primary thrills.
Outwardly relaxed, calm, unhurried. He knows his talent is power. He knows he'll get what he wants. But under the surface, his lust rages, waiting for the moment to leap.
Confident. He knows himself, and his abilities. What he doesn't know, he learns (in articles on the internet hhahahaha - *grin*).
Curious. He asks questions, he discovers his sub's "tastes" and "weaknesses" ASAP. While he's exploring, he's considerate. listening, attentive; he assumes nothing. When he plays, he knows her limits and her preferences (thus how to rule her) - there's no hesitation.
Psychologically healthy / personally whole. He values his sub as a woman, a person, a valuable human being. He expects that she values herself as well.
Respectful. He honors safewords and pre-agreed limits, *under all circumstances*. He knows that since he is all-powerful and controls a valuable prize, he has a deep responsability -- that his sub's needs always come first.
Honest. He is true to himself, and true to others.
See also: (Below) Pre-Meeting Checklist for Dom Info - Characteristics of a Successful Dominant - The Dominant - all on file JIC!
Communicative. She can express what she likes, what turns her on, what her limits are.
Psychologically healthy / personally whole. She has a life of her own. She knows herself. She knows that she is a valuable prize, a quality woman. She associates only with those who value her for her full worth.
Comfortable with her body, her self, and her sexuality. She cannot give to a Dom what she does not have, so she must, first-and-foremost, own herself.
Observant. Best stated in Characteristics of a Successful Submissive - "[Intelligence] As it applies to a successful submissive, intelligence is the ability to think for themselves. The ability to make informed decisions about who to submit to and just how far their submission goes. The ability to take the time to learn their partner outside the roles of dominant and submissive, to learn them as the person they are, their likes and dislikes. The ability to learn what pleases their dominant and remember those things. "
Strong. She knows that if she's not happy, she can - and will - walk away. A better Dom is right around the corner.
Honest. She is true to herself, and true to others.
See Also: Rights As A
Expect A Good Dom
To....(Pre-Meeting Checklist) - all on file JIC!
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